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Nađa Vesić (2007) – Snaga je nova lepota / Strong is the new pretty

11 Dec , 2017  

Kada sam prvi put uzeo u ruke knjigu Kejt Parker bilo mi je žao što je ja nisam napisao.A onda sam pomislio nema veze, ja ću da dodam Nađu, koja nedostaje portretima u knjizi, jer je ona deo te nove lepote. Mnogo sam naučio o devojčicama od kada sam se rodio, sa mamom sam pročitao od Šer Hajt o seksualnosti žene, a pisanjem o kraljici Mariji Karađorđević otkrio sam značenje mizoginije, ali tek kada sam porastao shvatio sam da se nova dominanta, tvrdoglava, ponosna i uporna generacija rađa sa današnjim devojčicama. One neće morati da dokazuju da su ravnopravne sa muškarcima, da za isti rad moraju da budu isto plaćene, niti da budu lepo obučene, ni doterane, ako ne žele.  One su autentične,  i znaju šta žele i šta nose u sebi. A Nađa se tu savršeno uklapa. Iako su roditelji, kao i svi koji dobro žele svom detetu, pokušali da je zaštite od spoljnog sveta, ona se sama izborila da u realnom svetu pobeđuje, bira šta želi i i sve to radi podjednako uspešno bez obzira da li je u pitanju borilačka veština, strani jezik ili programiranje. Knjigu sam kupio na Floridi i doneo je Nađi za rođendan, jer njoj nije lako ni kupiti poklon, pošto njena svestranost predstavlja zaista istinsku lepota, a njena snaga i jeste u tome što je pobedila sve ono u životu što je pretilo da je učini slabijom.

When I first took the book of Kate Parker, I was sorry that I did not write it. And then I thought no matter, I’ll add Nađa, which lacks portraits in the book, because it is part of this new pretty. I learned a lot about girls since I was born, with my mother I read from Shere Hite about the sexuality of a woman, and by writing about Queen Marija Karadjordjevic I discovered the meaning of misogyny, but only when I grew up I realized that the new dominant, stubborn, proud and determined generation is born with today’s girls. They will not have to prove that they are equal with men, that for the same work they must be paid the same, and not to be dressed well, not worn, if they do not want to. They are authentic, and they know what they want and what they carry in themselves. And Nađa fits perfectly. Although parents, like everyone who wants their child well, tried to protect her from the outside world, she managed to win the real world, choose what she wants and all of this works equally well regardless of martial arts, foreign language or programming. I bought the book in Florida and brought it to Nađa for a Birthday, because it is not easy for her to buy a gift, since her versatility is truly true beauty, and her strength is that she has won everything in her life that threaten to have made her weaker.

 


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